In Islamic tradition, it is noted that most prophets had the noble occupation of shepherding during their early lives. Many Islamic scholars highlight the profound wisdom behind this: tending to flocks instills discipline, patience, and a deep sense of responsibility. These qualities are essential for leadership and guiding others, as they teach individuals to nurture, protect, and care for their dependents. The simplicity and solitude of shepherding also provide time for reflection and spiritual growth, preparing individuals for greater roles in life.
The goal of this guide is to teach you how to emulate that process of transformation in your own life, grounded in Islamic values. Of course, you may not be able to abandon your responsibilities and be a shepherd, but you can create an environment of self-discipline and worship in your daily life.
In this guide, you’ll learn 7 practical steps to implement today and, with the help of Allah, become a better version of yourself in the next 90 days.
Step 1: Purify Your Intentions (Niyyah)
Before starting any journey, clarify your intentions. Ask yourself, Why am I doing this? In Islam, our intentions determine the reward of our actions. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
“Actions are but by intentions, and every man shall have only that which he intended.”
Your goal should be to seek Allah’s pleasure, become a stronger believer, and improve yourself so you can better serve your family, community, and Deen.
Step 2: Remove Distractions (Tazkiyah)
One of the core principles of Islam is tazkiyah, the purification of the soul. To achieve this, identify distractions and habits that are taking you away from Allah and your purpose in life. This includes wasting time on social media, unnecessary conversations, or anything haram like music, gossip, or inappropriate content.
Replace these distractions with acts of worship like daily Qur’an recitation, salah, and dhikr. The Quran reminds us:
“Indeed, the prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing…”
(Surah Al-Ankabut, 29:45)
For the next 90 days, commit to cutting out distractions and focusing on your connection with Allah.
Step 3: Establish Daily Non-Negotiables
Set a few non-negotiable habits that you will follow no matter what. These should include:
- Salah on time, in the masjid (for men).
- Daily Qur’an recitation, even if it’s just a few ayahs.
- 30 minutes of physical activity. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) encouraged physical strength and fitness, saying:“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, while there is good in both.”
You can add more habits, such as memorizing a portion of the Qur’an, learning Islamic knowledge, or practicing gratitude through dua. Just ensure you keep your commitments realistic.
Step 4: Simplify Your Appearance and Conduct (Ihsan)
The way you present yourself has a significant impact on your self-confidence and productivity. Islam emphasizes cleanliness and good appearance. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
“Allah is Beautiful and loves beauty.”
Wear simple, clean, and modest clothing, maintain good hygiene, and groom yourself regularly. A polished outward appearance can help boost your inner motivation and reflect the beauty of Islam.
Step 5: Commit to a Goal for Accountability
Set a tangible goal for yourself, such as memorizing a specific portion of the Qur’an, improving your salah, or mastering a new skill to benefit your livelihood. Your goal should serve as a reminder during challenging moments to stay disciplined.
The Qur’an says:
“Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.”
(Surah Ar-Ra’d, 13:11)
Step 6: Focus on Halal Means of Income
In Islam, financial stability is encouraged, but it must come through halal means. Learn a skill or trade that allows you to earn a living without compromising your faith. Use your time wisely, and dedicate effort to learning how to provide for yourself and your family.
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
“The best earning is that of a man’s own hand…”
By focusing on halal income-producing activities, you can remove the stress of financial struggles and better focus on your worship and personal growth.
Step 7: Strengthen Communication with Allah (Tawakkul and Dua)
The most powerful tool a believer has is dua. Communicate your hopes, fears, and goals to Allah, and place your trust in Him. The Qur’an promises:
“Call upon Me; I will respond to you.”
(Surah Ghafir, 40:60)
Work on refining your speech and improving your communication with others as well. A strong believer is one who can articulate themselves effectively to benefit others and spread the truth.
Final Thoughts
The process of self-improvement is challenging, but the rewards are immense. Just as the prophets went through hardship to achieve greatness, you too can become the best version of yourself with patience, effort, and trust in Allah.
Remember: Your strength lies in your connection to Allah, and your success is only through Him. Start today, and in 90 days, you’ll look back amazed at how much you’ve grown – spiritually, physically, and mentally إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ.
May Allah guide us all toward excellence in both this life and the Hereafter.